Friday, 8 February 2019

My NO is not your YES! Learn the difference…….

More often then not, I find words providing me with the contentment to pour in my emotions correctly (here Anger).

Yes, she treats her body like a temple. No! she doesn't wants you to certify it as one.  Yes, she is ambitious and hard working. No! She isn't the one to compromise her way up.  Yes, she wants to celebrate her small victories. No! You tag along only when you are invited to join her celebration.  Yes, she finds it difficult to open up about her feelings. No! You don't have to force it out to prove your opinion.  Yes, she's nice to everyone and talks sweetly. No! She's not acting to impress you.  Yes, she is innocent and vulnerable. No! It's not an act to gain your sympathy.  Yes, she listens to romantic songs. No! It's not an invitation for you to drag her along.  Yes, she openly acknowledges being lonely. No! She isn't hinting you to come and get her.  Yes, her eyes shine when she talks about things she loves. No! Those are not meant for you to exploit your way in.  Yes, she wears that plunging and hugging top. No! She just loves her body and is not trying to impress you.  Yes, she can be weird and alright. No! Your mindset is certainly beyond right.  Yes, she said a No. No! It definitely doesn't means a maybe for you.




































Lets spread love with consent and righteousness.
Hope this reaches people well.

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Friday, 31 July 2015

See More...

Why is it Disability? Why can't it just be Different Ability?
Like this man Robert M. Hensel says - “I choose not to place "DIS", in my ability.”
All we have to do is see for more than just what meets the eye.

What If?
See More - A Poem on Disability.


Tuesday, 16 September 2014

You are such a LIAR!


You are such a LIAR!

I have lied on people's face. Honestly, I was just insulting their dignity.

Sometimes I would sheepishly say "It was just a WHITE LIE!"
What is a WHITE LIE?

White Lie - Meaning
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A quote by Lucy Hale on White Lie.
Photo Courtesy: http://quotes.lifehack.org/quote/lucy-hale/but-little-white-lies-here-and-there/

We think a little white lie is of no harm to tell. But, your brain just becomes a dustbin full of those wasteful lies. 

 
 Why would I want to remember that, I was down with dengue on 14th of February 20** while my friend was getting married and she really expected me to attend it? Whereas, I was actually sitting on my couch watching a movie, too lazy to attend the wedding!




People have their goody good reasons jotted down as a safe justification for their little lies. 

I think, people lie sometimes to avoid confrontations, to save face, to get one's way, for personal gains, even to come out as a nice person and sometimes just to make oneself feel good about their self-deceptions!
I have tried them all as per the situation's demand but, have my own regrets because of the outcomes they had. I had to face their consequences in some way or the other. Even my master brain could keep a record of only a few. Naturally, people even start pointing out that "You know sweety, you are a terrible liar!".
  
Sometimes, I personally let people lie their ass out when i know the truth. 
Its funny when they don't know that you know what they think you don't know!
Phoebe in friends - Funny Moment gif.
Photo Courtesy: http://www.smartsnobs.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/8b09b9cca4f9f64c3bcfe35f83beedc7.gif

But, what I really want to say is, 
Why Lie?
Why undermine people's trust?
Why treat relationships as a one-off transaction?
Why torture your brain emotionally?
Why compromise on your ethics?

Give yourself a chance to improve. Go ahead and give people a chance too!  

I also know its difficult for a person to practice the path of truth, but why not start with baby steps? :)
Please share your views and opinions about the topic.
Would also like to know if any grammatical error is made in this blog post.
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